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IMDB rating: 6.80 Plot: Once again, New York cop John McClane is in the wrong place at the wrong time - this time he’s waiting for his wife’s plane to arrive at Washington’s Dulles Airport when he uncovers a plot to sabotage the airport’s landing system. The criminals wish to free a drug baron being extradited to America for trial by holding the airport to ransom until they all safely escape on another plane. However, if they’d known that Holly McClane was on a flight home to the very airport they were hijacking, they would have picked another day. |
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What do to about my lazy boyfriend?
Before you read: Please don’t say "dump him", that’s not what I want and he’s a great guy.
I am 20 and very successful with school and work.
My boyfriend is the opposite. He is 22, has no job, sleeps til noon, lives with his parents, and doesn’t go to school. He plans on going to a university next year, but right now running track for the local community college is his top priority instead of obtaining an A.A.
He trains several hours a day for track, hoping to be picked up by some college, so he is motivated with that but I believe in going to school the old-fashioned way and earning your place at a college.
He works hard helping his sister with her business. He always tells me his dreams of owning a successful business and making lots of money like his sister, but he doesn’t seem to understand that he needs to work for it and that striking it rich isn’t exactly realistic.
He reluctantly tells me his plan is to major in kinesiology and become a track coach or something, and tells me that he’s rather die than have a 9-5 office job.
I know one day his parents and himself will give him a kick in the *** to start taking control of his life, but in the meantime I am worried for him and for us. We are talking about getting married in 2 or 3 years, and I want to marry a man not a boy.
Is laziness and a "mid-life crisis" normal for guys his age? Are most young guys just naturally lazy day-dreamers, but snap out of it later?
I think he has delusions of grandeur. He wants to get rich quick and that doesn’t happen in the real world.
watts | Nov 19, 2009
Most guys are just day dreamers, and most women seem to think there lazy underachievers.
If people could realize this, then maybe we would get along better.
He’ll snap out of it, but I doubt that he actually has something that bad to snap out of…
nbaskes | Nov 19, 2009
i was a big natural lazy day dreamers, eventually some big ***t happens and this guy will snap out of it.
most of guys around this age are like that.
I would say hang on cause you are going to need a lot of patience
masdradok | Nov 19, 2009
depends. I would talk with him first before i decided everything. maybe he has subconsciously thought that you will do everything OR you just happen to do it before he would. Think of it like the garbage. Some people take it out when it is 3/4 full, some take it out only when it is over flowing. you have to ask which he is.
I take it out when it overflows. Does that mean I’m lazy? not exactly, I just think it is a waste to empty a garbage when it is not full.
Mary lou | Nov 19, 2009
tell him to get a job or something not as meen though and also do u think he really loves u
kyle c | Nov 19, 2009
He hasn’t figured out what he wants to do. are his parents really rich and sucsessfull, I had a friend like that and he just sponged off them all his life.
DAVE The Irish Man LOL | Nov 19, 2009
You need a new boyfriend that will do something. Not a bumb
10 points 5 stars | Nov 19, 2009
spend more time on giving him good advice..
crazy mama | Nov 19, 2009
I think your the dumb one.. I wouldnt think about getting serious with life until your 30ish.. Your young, live it up and enjoy.. Date him and have fun.. Most dont get married until 30’s now - so I’m sure he wont even be around by then…
Paper P | Nov 19, 2009
D-U-M-P H-I-M ! what does that spell? dump him! Lets go! wooooo!!! haha
Paz | Nov 19, 2009
I’m tending to agree with Paper P..but I wouldn’t go as far as calling you ‘dumb’.
Silver Foxy | Nov 19, 2009
Hey, if you want it to work out then just stick it out. You might end up being the bread winner for a while but if thats okay with you then…
My husband and I keep our finances seperate. We each pay for different things to keep it fair. He is pretty lazy and doesnt try nearly hard enough to get work (he just started up an LLC) but I stick by his side and tell him to keep at it. When he cant pay for stuff he ends up feeling really bad and has to ask for money from me (a kick to his pride) then it makes him want to work harder.
So if you are paying for any of his stuff or constantly helping him financially, you should stop. Also the sooner you can get him to move out of his mom and dads the better. He wont know how to care for himself or you if he never lives on his own. Maybe make small suggestions, and comment on how you are a little worried about your future with him. See what he has to say, maybe he doesnt really want to look into the future and worry about taking care of you. Get the bigger picture now so you can work on it - together.
Biyonca | Nov 19, 2009
Well then you really honestly don’t want help. You want us to tell you what you want to hear. And it’s a lie….but you want to hear it anyways.
How can you be so successful with work and school and be so on top of that but have such a lack of conscience in your personal life? How?
He wants to stike it rich and your enabling him in his pie in sky way of thinking so your part of his problem not part of the solution.
Be extra sure you are on the pill. Do not bring a baby into this uncertain relationship.
Let’s say this in 2 to 3 yrs if he has not grown up in his thinking and he has not owned up to getting a job even if it’s a 9 to 5 god awful position somewhere…you don’t marry him OK. Because if you do you will find a life so miserable it’s beyond words. And now your stuck and legally he can divorce you and really screw you over with taking half of your stuff you worked so darn hard for.
Some men never snap out of lazy frat boy day-dreamers mode. Some turn out to be grown old men who act up and go through numerous divorces in their lives. All the while bringing more and more kids into the picture making their lives miserable. The enablers like yourself only help perpetuate it.
You know what to do so I won’t tell you the advice your asking for. Good luck…
no1advice | Nov 19, 2009
Yes "most" guys snap out of it the older they get. I think maybe he wants his play time. Then he may buckle down and get the ball rolling.
Michelle | Nov 19, 2009
Tell him that everyone gets a 9-5 job. No avoiding it. Ask him to look for a job, even part time at a gas station, because he sounds less ‘lazy’ and more ‘unmotivated’. Help him realize that no one gets rich quick.
Trid | Nov 19, 2009
First of all, you should get married because you believe each other are compatible in all aspects of life, not just physically, but also socially, emotionally, mentally. If you do not have similar goals, interests, communication styles and such it will be rocky to say the least.
Laziness is in the eye of the beholder, obvious if he works hard helping his sisters business and for track he is not lazy. He just is not motivated or interested in the same thing you are. If this relationship is to continue you will have to accept that fact in him because you can never bank on someone changing to be something you want. Most people change because they want to or need to, not because someone else wants them to.
More importantly, have you communicated what is important to you and said what you want in life? If you do not know then you should not get married, if you do not agree then you should not get married, if you can not communicate with him then you should not get married.
p.s. you’re still young, go and have some fun.
Mataku | Nov 19, 2009